Pepi’s perfect eggs I had perfect scrambled eggs once. I was in my twenties and staying with a friend of my parents who lived in Birmingham, England. Pepi was a wonderful cook, but the meal I remember most vividly is those scrambled eggs. They were soft and creamy, but not runny, and cooked just enough. […]

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  • May 7, 2020 - 6:58 am

    Ana - I love that you compared cooking with a performance. I immediately pictured the cook as the conductor, and each ingredient as an instrument.
    The description of those scrambled eggs is spot on, I could almost taste them.ReplyCancel

  • May 7, 2020 - 5:09 pm

    Melony - I am so glad to see you on the grids this week, Nancy! It’s been too long. 🙂 Loved this piece. It’s so true! Cooking is most certainly a performance. I like how you talked about the variables that make a perfect meal. I have made many a perfect meal that I cannot replicate the next time. Hubby is always sad when a meal isn’t quite as nice as the previous time, because I forgot to write down “replaced Worcestershire sauce with Balsamic Vinegar” or something else less overt like that, like letting the pot boil an extra few minutes. I also appreciated the message that chasing perfection is foolish.ReplyCancel

  • May 7, 2020 - 6:18 pm

    soapie - i am just beginning to learn what that means, how a real cook doesn’t use recipe. i never realized that until recently. but now it makes sense.. no wonder my parents never have measurements and just go by taste and sense. thank you for clarifying this!! its eye opening really.

    at first i was a little confused when you started off talking about live concerts. but then as you explained it, i understood your metaphor more clearly. and actually it makes more sense to me because i’ve played more concerts than i have cooked meals… and yeah.. sometimes a performance just doesnt execute the way you practiced hundreds of times. so if you’re saying cooking is like that- then now, i get it. =) thank you! enjoy your use of metaphor and connecting two different concepts.ReplyCancel

Bad hair days Most people have hair, and like to talk about it, but, can we talk about my hair? Currently, it’s badly in need of a cut and color, but as hardly anyone sees me, does it matter? No need to mention the skinny ponytail bobbing foolishly at the back of my head. This […]

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  • April 30, 2020 - 8:56 pm

    asha - You have some strong images here, Nancy. The hair/perm, driving a manual/stick shift, and your crumbling relationship. The journey you and your sister took, and all its shakiness and the many stop-starts was, for me, the most compelling image. As a result, the perm took second place and I found it a little distracting. I’d love to see what this essay looked like reworked with just the journey and your failing relationship with your ex. That was a really vivid metaphor and worked nicely.ReplyCancel

    • May 4, 2020 - 12:47 pm

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Asha, your feedback is always just what I’m looking for. I’m trying to regain my ‘writing legs’ which is turning out to be a slow and arduous process, but one that I’m lucky enough to have time for.ReplyCancel

  • May 1, 2020 - 4:21 pm

    Jen Mierisch - This was a fun look at bad hair past and present. I too found the story with the sister a bit distracting. I wanted to know how you reacted when your boyfriend burst out laughing… was it upsetting, did you laugh too, was it the nail in the relationship’s coffin, etc.ReplyCancel

    • May 4, 2020 - 12:50 pm

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Jen, I wish that I could say that event was the nail in the coffin of that relationship, but the coffin was still under construction. But that, as they say, is another story.ReplyCancel

It’s everywhere, and in everything and I’m going to give you one more reason to love cauliflower. This shrimp and cauliflower grits will give the traditional recipe made with corn grits some serious competition. If you’ve riced cauliflower then you’re familiar with this method of preparation, but to make a smooth, creamy grits-like iteration you’re […]

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It’s just a dream In the dream, I’m running from my house—not my house, but a familiar house which is on fire, and I’m grabbing only what is necessary. I’m grabbing things in a mad rush. I stop running, I freeze, paralyzed. What do I take, what is it I can’t live without, and what […]

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  • April 23, 2020 - 5:05 am

    Shilpa Gupte - Just my thoughts. Each time I wonder about life after this, I try to visualize it and feel lost. Life is never returning to normal, for sure, not after the kind of havoc this crisis has wreaked on the world. And, will we ever go back to living as we did earlier? I doubt.
    it’s a very scary situation. 🙁ReplyCancel

  • April 23, 2020 - 7:06 pm

    Margaret Shafer - Your dreams work so well as metaphors for this bizarre world we have entered.ReplyCancel

The days are mostly the same as each other as are the hours of the day. My meals, like my days, are essentially stuck on repeat.

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  • April 16, 2020 - 4:42 pm

    kathunk - What a great food rhythm to have! I admire how you break down all the elements of how this time is affecting us/you, with great headings (love a good heading). After reading this, I’m rooting for you and everyone else who is trying to maintain a healthy relationship with food in an extra stressful time. And you had some great lines I loved: “Freed from external obligations and proper pants” HA! and “I kept my appetites locked in a drawer labeled routine”. Thanks for sharing!ReplyCancel

    • April 16, 2020 - 5:07 pm

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Thanks so much! It’s been so long since I’ve written anything, so I’m grateful for your feedback.ReplyCancel

  • April 16, 2020 - 5:16 pm

    Jen Mierisch - Some great turns of phrase in here – my favorites are “that weight isn’t lost at all, it’s waiting in a dark corner,” and “Freed from external obligations and proper pants” (ha!). This whole thing is very relateable to me. Keeping regular mealtimes has definitely helped provide routine and semi-normalcy for me and my husband and the kids during this madness. But I definitely need that glass of wine in the evening. I am currently at my “eats dessert every night” weight. Oh well. Good for you for choosing the healthy blackberries!ReplyCancel

    • April 16, 2020 - 6:11 pm

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Jen,
      Thank you. I’m glad you enjoyed this, end even more that you related, isn’t that we all try for?
      Stay well!!ReplyCancel

  • April 16, 2020 - 5:58 pm

    Margaret Shafer - Nancy, it’s so good to see you on the grids again!

    I liked the theme of routine in this non-normal time and the emphasis on the berries at the beginning and the end.

    Also, my sympathy for the diet restrictions, because I have read your descriptions of food and they make my mouth water. Congratulations on your success so far!ReplyCancel

    • April 16, 2020 - 6:13 pm

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Thank you, Margaret. It’s been so long since I’ve done any real writing I feel like I’m trying to get my sealegs back…ReplyCancel

  • April 16, 2020 - 9:48 pm

    asha - Nice to see you back on the grids, Nancy. The structure of this essay with the headings and separate sections where you address each key idea worked nicely to frame your journey. Similarly, repeating the image of the half a cup of blackberries at the beginning and end worked well to bookend this essay and keep that image foremost in the reader’s mind. I did find the second and third sections a little incongruous. The second section seems to emphasise the boredom and restrictions of routine, while the third does the opposite and celebrates the security that routine gives. Perhaps a little more teasing out of the central ideas in each of these sections would help to distinguish them a bit more.ReplyCancel

    • April 17, 2020 - 11:31 am

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Asha, thank you for this great feedback. I agree with you completely. There was something nagging at me, and you articulated it perfectly. I’m so happy to be writing again, and back in the fold of YW.ReplyCancel

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