I like to think I am very good at choosing words in general, but when it comes to specific things, like choosing a word for a year, or a life, well then I get a bit stuck. I loved the book Eat, Pray, Love, almost more than I care to admit, but that’s another story… However for this story, the pertinent part is that Elizabeth Gilbert talks about finding a word that defines you*. This week, as I have wandered the blog world I have become a part of, I’ve seen numerous posts with people proclaiming their WORD for 2014. Crap! I have to come up with a word again! A word that will define my year, that is a lot of pressure, what if I choose the wrong word?
Can there be a wrong word? Well, I guess if I chose fail, or garbage or burn, those might set the wrong tone, but I can’t think of anyone who would make that obviously poor a choice. Some contenders are cook, soar, give, love, brave, imagine, leap, move. All good enough words I’m sure, but I’m just not feeling compelled to make a choice. My life has been a rich map of roads and crossroads, many times I wasn’t even aware that I was at a crossroads, and other times though I did realize my situation I had no idea of the import of that choice until months or years afterwards.
As I stand at the starting line of 2014 I feel refreshed, energized and positive about the choices I am making, and about the path I have chosen. The universe (with some participation on my part) has been very generous with me, and I am aware of how fortunate I am. Choosing a word may feel exactly right to many people, and I admire them, and applaud and savor their processes (as they share them). I have never chosen a word to start a year, and I’m feeling fine about continuing that trend. My choice is to choose all the words, as many as I can fit into my life, as many as I can write and share, and convince you are worth reading! I choose to cook, to soar, to give, to love, to be brave and strong, to imagine, and take leaps of faith, and otherwise, and to keep moving; moving forward, moving furniture, moving mountains, molehills and myself.
I feel a bit abashed at posting this five days into 2014, but then again I still have 360 more days to go, and five is just a drop in the annual bucket!
*After seeing EPL my friend Corrine and I had a lively discussion about ‘our words’ . I thought my word was search, she said it was joy, and though I didn’t come up with it myself, I liked it so much I kept it! JOY is my word for life, and so for every year, month, day and minute, as long as I can hold on to joy no word can ever replace it!
Lois Alter Mark - Joy is an awesome word and will be life-changing this year! I feel the same way about Eat Pray Love as you do — we will need to talk about that one day, hopefully in person!
Sarah Rudell Beach - Joy is a great word! I like it more than happiness – being happy is a momentary thing, while joy is deep and internal. Happy New Year!
nrlowell@comcast.net - I was flattered to have this word bestowed on me, and always try to live up to it! It is a wonderful word.
Jen @ Real Life Parenting - What a wonderful word to frame your thinking this year. After all, we see what we look for. 🙂
Zenith Thinking Blog - I love it … EPL was the exact reason I got into doing a Word for the year but this year we actioned 3 words. Mine are Writing Abundance Adventure!
A great post that resonated beautifully with me.
Warm regards
Zenith
nrlowell@comcast.net - Thanks! I often forget that EPL is loved and adored by millions, even though I think it was written expressly for me 🙂 Isn’t that the sign of great writing?
All the best!!