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  Everyday life is not about big, important events, it’s about ordinary things that are almost unnoticeable—almost. When I had to buy new dishes for myself eight years ago I felt a combination of I can’t/shouldn’t spend money on nice things.  I went to Ikea and got reasonably attractive, cheap inexpensive and serviceable white dishes. They were […]

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I lost Cathy twice; the most recent time was about twenty years ago, and it still causes me immense sadness. I’m not sure what year it was; I know I was still living in New York, and it was Memorial Day weekend. I called her at her house on Fire Island on Saturday morning. “Carol?” […]

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The flyers would go out an hour or two before the performance, but we always got a decent sized audience for each showcase the ALs put on. The ALs was what my siblings and I called our act; A for Alexander (my sisters’ last name) and L for my brother and me. Put that all […]

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I used to swim, but it’s been almost seven months since I visited the pool, and I’m struggling getting back in the water. When I get in bed Sunday nights, I review my schedule for the coming week, and I figure out what mornings I’ll have time to swim before I go to work, and commit […]

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