Love it or hate it No matter your approach to it there is a constancy to the work of cooking. Even the simplest tasks require some degree of preparation, assembly, and cleanup. If you hate it the work is odious, if you love it can literally and figuratively feed you. Either way, most of us […]

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  • July 16, 2020 - 3:02 am

    Asha - This is such an interesting question to explore; talent or skill. Focusing on cooking/food is particularly relevant at the moment too. That was a nice way to bring the reader with you. You make some particularly good points about balance and understanding ingredients. Like writing, I find that breaking the “rules” in cooking works best when you understand what the rules are and why they’re there. The breaking of rules then becomes a deliberate act for a particular, chosen effect. On a side note, my kids and I recently bought and tried Mountain Dew flavoured Doritos. Whoever came up with that combination could stand to read this essay.ReplyCancel

    • July 16, 2020 - 5:22 pm

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Asha, As always, thank you for your feedback. I was already deep into finishing this piece when I read your “Who Knew?” and had a bit of a chuckle. Funny how ideas often have unrecognized outside forces pushing them forward. Today I read another piece elsewhere that echoed that same sentiment of practicing something improves performance, who knew?. All the best!ReplyCancel

      • July 30, 2020 - 10:11 am

        Rajib Sarkar - Really nice heading “Practice doesn’t make perfect”. Perfection makes a goal of success. Cooking is an art, when you mix that art with balanced nutrition then it’s a wonderful result.ReplyCancel

  • July 17, 2020 - 11:24 am

    Venice - As a person who enjoys cooking, I agree that skill does make an impact. I started off with a little bit of talent (courtesy few genes from my grandmother) but was just an okay cook. A friend of mine has pure talent as well as skill. Like you mentioned in ‘The theory of lousy cooking’, about balance and complement, he is one of the few people I know who creates signature dishes where the ingredient proportions always hits the jackpot. I took notes of every minute skill that went into his preparations, and attempted copying them, and there has been a significant improvement in my cooking. I still have to govern the knack of balance 🙂

    It was extremely enjoyable to read your post – the paragraph structure makes it seem like I’m reading new chapters. I also admire the brevity of your content – you state your point, illustrate them, and move on. Most of all, I love that you brought up this poignant topic – especially since this pandemic has seen more of us in the kitchen.ReplyCancel

    • July 17, 2020 - 12:39 pm

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Thank so much for your feedback, I’m glad this piece resonated with you.
      As someone who has cooked as an amateur, a professional, and then again as a home cook, I find I never stop learning, experimenting, failing, and succeeding.ReplyCancel

Better than what? I would like to be better. But it’s not that easy. An old friend often responds to my snarky Twitter posts with that very tag; #Be Better. I suppose he means to be kinder, but he is a kind of snarky person himself, so maybe he means be even better at being […]

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  • July 9, 2020 - 8:45 am

    Margaret - Your writing is certainly getting better and better with practice. This touched my heart. I think we have all felt this at one time or another, but to stay in this place is hard. For me, a round of therapy when I was young helped immensely. I feel as though anything I would try to say to convince you to feel otherwise would be the equivalent of saying “Feel better.” (Loved that section. Such a good point.) I’ll just say, I like having you around here.ReplyCancel

    • July 9, 2020 - 5:26 pm

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Margaret, Thanks for your comment. I’m so happy to be writing regularly again, and so worried I’ll be challenged to keep it up when I return to work…
      BTW, after a talk with my daughter, I do feel much better.ReplyCancel

  • July 9, 2020 - 7:08 pm

    Jen Mierisch - As a terminal perfectionist, I identify with that “not good enough” feeling so very much! Also, I know I’ve said this before but your subheads are great. They break things up in a web-friendly way, they’re often funny (I read “You want proof?” in a tough-guy voice in my head, like “You wanna piece of me?”), and they keep the pace moving along. My favorite part of this: “It means that I strip down and look in the mirror to see what I’m really doing or saying, and why.” So true. But if we don’t do that introspection, we don’t get better, so good for you for doing it. Some people never do.ReplyCancel

    • July 9, 2020 - 8:18 pm

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Thanks Jen. I started using the headings because my SEO tool suggested it, but I find them helpful in framing my thoughts. I’m glad you read that proof line the way you did, that’s exactly what I was imagining!ReplyCancel

Hoping and dreading Last week I got the email with the best worst news I’ve been awaiting. Or was it the worst best news? The university where I work(ed) is reopening for the fall semester, and I will return to work in August. Yeah! Oh. What do you want first? The good news or the […]

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  • July 2, 2020 - 6:47 pm

    Jen Mierisch - I like your subheads. They add humor (“It turns out I’m old”) and keep things moving along. I identify with a lot of this, particularly “Some days I wish I would just catch it so I could move on from the persistent fear.” Four conflict-free months of answering to no one sounds amazing; I’d be grateful for 4 hours of that! Good luck going back out there. I’ve never been so glad I work from home.ReplyCancel

I’m not a fan I hear there are people who love that new car smell so much they buy air freshener that mimics it. I’m not a fan. Nevertheless, back in the time before, I was planning to buy a new car. It’s been quite a while since I dared to consider such a purchase, […]

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  • June 18, 2020 - 3:16 am

    Melony Boseley - This is such a stark reminder of what my father used to tell me. Never plan for anything, that’s the moment it all falls apart. I’m so sorry about how the universe is treating you. I hope soon you can get that new car smell, whether you’re a fan or not. <3ReplyCancel

    • June 18, 2020 - 8:04 am

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Ha, ha! Melony, so true. But given all that’s happening in the world, I figure what’s going on with me personally is just universal collateral damage :/ReplyCancel

  • June 18, 2020 - 4:49 pm

    Rowan - Oof. *Relatable.* And fundamentally related to the “why don’t they just not eat avocado toast* theory of American poverty, which I think is the only thing I wish you’d touched on here. Access to cars, houses, all the touchstones of “success” or “stability” are being ripped away generationally, and it’s terrifying and frustrating. (We got our car out of the impound lot where it had been improperly towed, using the money earmarked for my engagement ring. It was a frivolous thing, but dammit.) I hope you get your car. And I hope you always have good music on when you drive 🙂ReplyCancel

    • June 18, 2020 - 5:27 pm

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Rowan, Thanks, but I guess I feel too privileged to allude to the avocado toast thing, though I certainly could tie it in, just not in reference to myself.ReplyCancel

  • June 18, 2020 - 9:36 pm

    Jen Mierisch - There are some terrific lines in here. I chuckled at “every appliance we own is a ticking time bomb” and “I have generously passed this skill along to my daughter”. I thought you deftly illustrated how it’s not really about the car, it’s about fiscal stability. I know from experience how much unemployment stinks. I hope your unemployment is short-lived.ReplyCancel

  • June 18, 2020 - 9:37 pm

    Margaret - Nancy, I feel this. I will tell you though, once your daughter gets out of college, if the world has settled down and she can be gainfully employed, you will suddenly have a great deal more money. Hang in there!ReplyCancel

  • June 18, 2020 - 9:57 pm

    Asha Rajan - The framing of this essay around the purchase of a new car was clever, Nancy. You did such nice job of illustrating what fiscal insecurity can look like, and what so many take for granted can be gone in the blink of an eye. The last section was especially well constructed. It could almost (not quite, but so very nearly) stand alone as a complete argument.ReplyCancel

  • June 19, 2020 - 12:00 pm

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