It’s spring, and it finally feels like it (after that week or so tease in March) and Fresh Direct *was offering a deal on wild, spring ramps this week so I thought I’d ramp it up. I am embarrassed to admit I’ve never cooked with ramps before, and my planning for their arrival was typically […]

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One of my favorite poems is Elizabeth Bishop’s One Art, a lesson on lost things. For me there have been many things, places and people dropped or misplaced long before I noticed their absence as well as those lost suddenly, leaving rough, tender places that I had to protect. I clearly recall the moment I lost my […]

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  • April 14, 2016 - 6:39 pm

    Laura - I love how this progresses from relatively minor losses to really huge, painful ones, and how the lessons you learned from each one are, in the end, the same lesson. Overall it’s a beautiful and oddly reassuring piece.ReplyCancel

Since starting my new job I’ve been getting home late, and my daughter, fresh from a long day at school followed by two hours of rowing crew is crazy hungry so I need to assemble a wholesome and filling dinner in a flash.  We have a few dishes we rely on, like pasta with tuna and capers, or breakfast […]

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For the past eight years, I’ve woken Wednesdays knowing it was the day my daughter would be back home with me. Sharing custody of a child is hard on everyone, especially children. My concern about how it would impact her almost kept me from making one of the best decisions I’ve ever struggled to make. […]

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  • April 6, 2016 - 11:29 am

    Hema - This was so beautiful! My toddler is only three and she will be starting preschool soon. I’m so scared of the day she starts going out into the real world. I can only imagine how you must be feeling 🙂ReplyCancel

  • April 6, 2016 - 4:06 pm

    Stacie - I love it that you find cranes everywhere! I never went through a divorce but my oldest is a soph in college and it’s so weird he’s not around anymore.ReplyCancel

  • April 6, 2016 - 8:27 pm

    Marcy - It’s great that you can see she found equilibrium with the joint custody, and that you could do what was best for yourself and her. One of mine left for college last year, and the other one will leave in the fall. I love what your daughter said about being nice but not stupid. Here’s hoping mine can say the same.ReplyCancel

  • April 7, 2016 - 5:18 am

    Melony - Such a beautiful tribute to your daughter. I know a thing or two about this whole shared custody thing, cuz I’m the wicked stepmother of two kids, and despite them not being mine, I used to spend my week deciding what to cook that they love, etc. Great piece!ReplyCancel

    • April 7, 2016 - 6:56 am

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Thanks Melony. I was raised by a stepmother who saved my life! Rock on!ReplyCancel

  • April 7, 2016 - 2:48 pm

    Natalie - I love the image of the origami that connect this piece together throughout. And the way you describe her absence is powerful.ReplyCancel

    • April 13, 2016 - 8:53 pm

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Thanks Natalie, I feel her absence powerfully. So much pressure on her I fear…ReplyCancel

  • April 7, 2016 - 3:14 pm

    Samantha Merel - I love that you ended with the cranes. You are a really special mom to a lucky, lucky daughter.ReplyCancel

    • April 7, 2016 - 3:21 pm

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Thank you Samantha, but honestly I feel like the luck one!ReplyCancel

  • April 8, 2016 - 9:02 pm

    Stacy Clarke - Beautifully written Nancy.ReplyCancel

    • April 13, 2016 - 8:52 pm

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Stacy, thanks! So glad you enjoyed it.ReplyCancel

For the past few months my house has become Scone City, when each Saturday I make a new batch of scones; trying a variety of sweet and savory. I am not the most disciplined recipe tester, but I’ve gotten into it as I play with different methods, flavors and ingredients. After making at least seven […]

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