I had no idea his invitation was a one-time only opportunity. We were rarely alone, in fact I felt like he had been avoiding me for years. He’d tense up if I tried to hug him, I don’t recall much physical affection between us. Our conversations were brief and mainly perfunctory. He’d tell jokes, make ridiculous puns, […]
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Bryce Warden from http://wasthatmyoutloudvoice.com/ a fellow blogger has nominated me for the Liebster Award, and I feel honored, thankful, and relieved to get to write a post answering her 11 questions. It can be daunting to generate three new posts weekly, in fact last week I managed only two. This week I’ll be getting back […]
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I love picnic fare, and though I can’t recall the last time I picnicked that doesn’t stop me from eating foods I associate with summer, picnics, and barbecues. You may consider grilled meats the star of the show, but how often do you find yourself biting into dry chicken, burned hot dogs or burgers like […]
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Since the weather has turned ridiculously hot warm I have been making smoothies for breakfast, but when I wake up really hungry on a Saturday or Sunday I have but one thought weekend breakfast!!! Weekend breakfast can be almost anything from corn clafouti, to blueberry pancakes to venturing out to one of my favorite breakfast […]
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Roasted tomatoes are as beautiful as they are delicious, and you can put them into almost anything. If you are lucky enough to have a garden with sun (sadly I do not) and find yourself with too many tomatoes, roasting them is a great way to keep that summer flavor into the winter. For roasting […]
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Quirky Chrissy - This makes me so incredibly sad. You are a beautiful person and he certainly missed out on knowing that. I’m sorry for both of you.
nrlowell@comcast.net - Thanks Chrissy. If you had known him you would have found my father kind and funny and thoughtful, it was with those closest to him he maintained a distance.
Peggy Gilbey McMackin - Very sad.
Andrew M. Potterfield - What steps can we take now, in our own lives, to make sure the same thing does not happen with our children?
nrlowell@comcast.net - Andy, every day I do everything I can to be a very different parent to Rachel than my parents were to me. We make sure the same thing doesn’t happen by staying present, by seeing them and appreciating who they truly are, and not trying to make them into who we think they should be. I have been taking these steps as consciously as I can from the moment I became a parent. And still I’m quite sure I’m making plenty of mistakes.
Pandahaus - Writing down what’s real is a service to the rest of us. Complicated fathers make for a lot of real.
nrlowell@comcast.net - J. Thanks. It certainly helps me 🙂
Nathan James - There should just be a reset button when family relationships get too complicated to manage.
nrlowell@comcast.net - Nate, if only!
Meg Galipault - That first paragraph gives so much insight into your father’s personality, especially the part about finishing your sentences with song– well done. I’m so sorry about your relationship and hope that writing about it helped you work through some of it.
nrlowell@comcast.net - Meg, Thank you. Writing through things I find ever more insight…
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