Where does compassion live? Are we born with is, or is it something we are taught, or not?  I am pleased to be part of the #1,000 Voices Speak for Compassion project, and today my post is devoted to that. “In Germany they came first for the Communists, and I didn’t speak up because I wasn’t […]

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  • February 20, 2015 - 10:33 am

    Rena McDaniel - A very beautiful post! Intolerance and prejudice should have no place in a country like ours.ReplyCancel

  • February 20, 2015 - 11:29 am

    Quirky Chrissy - I like to think that this movement of compassion is a beautiful step. Perhaps we’ll start a world day of compassion. Who knows?ReplyCancel

    • February 22, 2015 - 6:16 pm

      nrlowell@comcast.net - It’s worth trying!ReplyCancel

  • February 20, 2015 - 12:33 pm

    Susan Baldauf - Bravo and thanks; I stand with you!ReplyCancel

  • February 21, 2015 - 11:31 am

    Peggy Gilbey McMackin - Thoughtful Post Nancy. I believe compassion begins with individuals. People become more tolerant and understanding as they expose themselves to others, I have found this to be true among different races and cultures of people, people meet, become engaged, and before you know it, they have embraced what before might have seemed so different. Compassion to me does not seem like something we espouse based on mere righteousness,anyone can claim this if they see something as intrinsically wrong,it is only by the actual inter-engagement of individuals that changes hearts and minds.ReplyCancel

    • February 21, 2015 - 12:50 pm

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Peggy, I couldn’t agree more! I do wish that when encountering someone different, or in need more people would have the impulse to acct out of curiosity and compassion rather than fear and mistrust. I believe there is a strong element in the US that is pushing people away from compassion and towards at best suspicion and at worst hatred, and that is unfortunate for everyone.ReplyCancel

  • February 22, 2015 - 11:21 am

    Suheiry Feliciano - Oh, Nancy, what a beautiful and thought-provoking post. Reading this made me feel so much affection for you. I feel like you are a true comrade in the battle against the atrocities we commit against each other. It’s horrifying how so many people comfortably ignore the unjust acts committed in this country over the past centuries and even today. Thank you for writing this.ReplyCancel

    • February 22, 2015 - 5:59 pm

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Suheiry, Thank you! I am often shocked or saddened by things I hear, but Friday was an amazing day! I am still making my way through the many stories of compassion. I have to pace myself, as many of them bring me to tears.ReplyCancel

Every week you’d find us at Nathan’s in Oceanside having our usual lunch, a hot dog and fried clams for my dad, frog’s legs for me, and we’d split an order of fries. For a short time the two of us would spend Saturdays together. If the weather was nice we’d go to Salisbury Park and we’d play […]

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  • February 17, 2015 - 12:40 pm

    Cyn K - I was thinking to myself, “Gee, I’ve never been brave enough to try frog legs.” Then I realized that, even if they aren’t made of dogs, I’ve been brave every time I’ve consumed the random processed bits in a hot dog!ReplyCancel

    • February 17, 2015 - 9:01 pm

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Cyn, if I had realized they were really frogs legs I doubt I would have tried them. Battered and deep fried they taste like, you guessed it, chicken!ReplyCancel

  • February 17, 2015 - 4:04 pm

    Quirky Chrissy - I’ve never been a big fan of frog’s legs (fishy chicken in my opinion), but I love the story. I remember I used to love escargot…until I discovered it was snails. And then I was grossed out…And then I got over it because anything doused in butter and garlic can’t be that bad. 😉ReplyCancel

    • February 17, 2015 - 9:04 pm

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Chrissy, I’m sure if you had them fried you would change you mind ReplyCancel

  • February 18, 2015 - 10:24 am

    Michelle Longo - You and are very different people. I would have never eaten something called frogs legs when I was kid just because it was called that. (Okay, fine, I wouldn’t eat it as an adult either!)

    I’m sure those afternoons with your father were very special to you and made for lots of great memories.ReplyCancel

    • February 18, 2015 - 2:50 pm

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Michelle, it never occurred to me they were frogs legs, I mean I got them from a place that sold hot dogs…
      Those days were a lot of fun! And disappeared too soon.ReplyCancel

  • February 19, 2015 - 10:53 am

    Natalie - I have always wanted to try actual frog legs…ReplyCancel

    • February 19, 2015 - 2:46 pm

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Natalie, it’s really too bad Nathan’s doesn’t serve them anymore, they were delicious.ReplyCancel

  • February 19, 2015 - 2:24 pm

    Linda Tharp - I felt like I was there with you and your dad, and I can imagine a child’s shock at what they’re actually eating. It reminds me of something my dad said once, when my mom needed lady fingers for a recipe. Dad told me to watch ladies’ hands because lady fingers have to come from somewhere…!ReplyCancel

    • February 19, 2015 - 2:46 pm

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Linda, I forgot about lady fingers! Oh dear.ReplyCancel

  • November 27, 2016 - 7:19 am

  It’s no secret that I love chicken thighs, and these Greek chicken thighs are a one-pot wonder with all kinds of possibilities for add-ins. This cold weather makes me long for warm weather, and the flavors of Greece bring back fond memories of travelling there. When I think of those flavors  I think of […]

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  • February 16, 2015 - 1:30 pm

    Kelly - This looks fabulous! Adding it to my weeknight dinner ideas. ReplyCancel

  • March 2, 2015 - 2:35 pm

    Parri Sontag (Her Royal Thighness) - This looks delicious. Do I have to cook the rice first?ReplyCancel

    • March 2, 2015 - 8:10 pm

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Parri, nope, you throw the rice in raw, and it cooks with the chicken.ReplyCancel

Friday as I was leaving nursery school they handed me (aged four) a gift, “for the new baby”. A wrapped gift that wasn’t for me, this was a bad sign. I was obsessed with it. I suppose I’d brought a few gifts to other kids at birthday parties, but that was different. This gift was […]

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  • February 10, 2015 - 6:51 am

    Quirky Chrissy - I was 10 months and 2 days old when my baby brother was born…I was not impressed. I don’t remember, buy apparently, I ripped pages out of books and jumped on his head in protest.

    And, Nancy, I can’t tell you enough how much I love reading your work. You tell stories with so much heart. I adore your writing style.ReplyCancel

    • February 10, 2015 - 10:05 am

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Chrissy, thanks so much for the compliment!ReplyCancel

  • February 10, 2015 - 7:50 am

    Sarah | Thank You Honey - Great post Nancy! I felt like I was there with you. I’m the youngest, my mom says when I was brought home from the hospital my brother (3YO) would poke, pinch, and pull my toes. I guess he was trying to figure out if I was real.ReplyCancel

    • February 10, 2015 - 10:04 am

      nrlowell@comcast.net - Sarah, thanks! I used to pinch and bite my brother… not too proud of that.ReplyCancel

  • February 11, 2015 - 4:00 pm

    Stacie - That is so hard. I was only 18 months when my sister came home so I don’t really remember it.ReplyCancel

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